UNDERSTANDING THIS PILGRIMAGE

A Catholic men's pilgrimage is a journey a man makes with his father, his son or his brothers in the faith to ask Christ what kind of man he is called to be: they go together to a holy place to pray, go to Confession, attend Mass and come home more faithful to the people who depend on them. A father-and-son pilgrimage is the same journey made across a generation, on the pattern of the Passover journey Jesus made to Jerusalem at twelve with Mary and Joseph. The men's journey Bold Pilgrim describes would go to Turin and the mountains of Piedmont in the company of St. John Bosco, a priest who became a father to boys who had none, and St. Pier Giorgio Frassati, a young layman who led his friends to Mass, to the poor and up mountains.

The Catholic foundation: a Son in his Father's house

The scene that stands behind every father-and-son pilgrimage is in the Gospel. St. Luke records that Jesus' parents went up to Jerusalem each year for Passover, and that when he was twelve he went with them "according to festival custom" (Luke 2:41-42). St. John Paul II put it simply: Jesus took part in the feast "as a young pilgrim," together with Mary and Joseph (Redemptoris Custos, n. 15).

What happened on that journey is the heart of this kind of pilgrimage. The boy stayed behind, his parents found him after three days in the Temple, and he answered, "Did you not know that I must be in my Father's house?" Then he went home to Nazareth "and was obedient to them" (Luke 2:49, 51). Both halves matter. Every man is a son before he is anything else, and the Son of God shows what that means.

So the foundation here is Jesus Christ himself, the Son who reveals the Father. A men's pilgrimage is not a celebration of masculinity. It is a group of sons going to the Father's house, asking to be made like the Son.

The Church draws the practical consequence for parents. Their role in educating their children is so important that it is almost impossible to replace; education in the faith should begin in a child's earliest years; and when children become adults they have the right and the duty to choose their own profession and state of life (Catechism, nn. 2221, 2226, 2230). A father who takes his son on pilgrimage is doing the first of these things and preparing himself for the last.

St. John Bosco: a father to boys who had none

John Bosco was born in 1815 in a farm hamlet in the hills outside Turin and, by the account given at his birthplace, lost his father when he was two and was raised by his mother, Margherita. As a young priest he gave himself to the street boys of Turin. On Easter Sunday 1846 his Oratory, which had moved from place to place, found a settled home in a shed at Valdocco. It grew into a home, workshops, a church and a religious family, the Salesians, who still keep the place. Pope Pius XI canonized him in 1934.

What he practised was fatherhood toward sons who were not his own. In 1989 St. John Paul II proclaimed him Father and Teacher of Youth and asked that he be honoured and invoked under that title throughout the Church. That title concerns the young; the Church has not named him a patron of men or of fathers, and this page does not either. He is here because any man who has charge of someone younger, a son, a godson, an apprentice, a team, will see in Valdocco what that charge asks of him.

St. Pier Giorgio Frassati: toward the heights

Pier Giorgio Frassati was born in Turin in 1901 and studied mining engineering at the Polytechnic. He went to Mass daily at his parish of La Crocetta, joined Catholic Action and the Catholic university federation, kept nights of Eucharistic adoration, and in 1922 became a Dominican tertiary. He belonged to a conference of the Society of St. Vincent de Paul and visited poor families; his friends, Pope Leo XIV recalled, called him 'Frassati Transport Company' for the loaded carts he pulled across the city. He belonged to the Italian Alpine Club, and with his friends he formed a company they called the Shady Characters, in which friendship and faith went together.

He died of poliomyelitis on 4 July 1925, aged twenty-four. A few weeks earlier, on a climb in the Lanzo Valleys, a companion photographed him on the rock looking up, and on the back he wrote 'Verso l'alto': toward the heights. It was not a motto he used; it became one for those who love him. St. John Paul II, who prayed at his grave in Pollone in 1989 and said that in his own youth he had felt the good influence of Pier Giorgio's example, beatified him in 1990. Pope Leo XIV canonized him on 7 September 2025, together with St. Carlo Acutis.

For men he is a companion more than a model to admire from a distance. He was a layman and a student, and a friend who promised his friends a prayer at the feet of Our Lady of Oropa. Speaking to young people in Turin in 2015, Pope Francis quoted a phrase as his: to live, and not merely to get by.

The Shroud of Turin: what the Church says

Frassati's tomb is in the same cathedral as the Shroud of Turin, a linen cloth bearing the image of a scourged and crucified man, which many Catholics venerate as the burial cloth of Jesus. That veneration is devotion and tradition. On the question of the cloth's origin, St. John Paul II said in the cathedral on 24 May 1998: 'Since it is not a matter of faith, the Church has no specific competence to pronounce on these questions.' He entrusted the continuing investigation to scientists and called the Shroud 'a mirror of the Gospel'. Benedict XVI, in 2010, called it 'an Icon written in blood', and Pope Francis, in 2013, 'this icon of a man scourged and crucified'.

The cloth is not on view. According to the Archdiocese of Turin's own Shroud office it lies in a sealed conservation case in the last chapel of the left aisle and is brought out only for public expositions, which the Pope decides; none has been announced. Pilgrims pray in front of the chapel, and the Museum of the Shroud is nearby. For a men's pilgrimage the reason to stop is simple: to stay for a while, in silence, before an image of what the Passion cost.

Why men go together

Men's pilgrimages are not a recent invention. Speaking in Silesia in 1983, St. John Paul II recalled the annual pilgrimage of men and young men to the Marian shrine of Piekary Śląskie, at which he had preached as Archbishop of Kraków, and he spoke to the people of Silesia about work as man's fundamental vocation and the family as the first school of social love. In Provence, fathers and men who hope to become fathers have walked to Cotignac each summer for close to fifty years, in groups of roughly fifteen, over three days. The reports describe the same few things: walking, the Rosary, Mass, Confession, and men telling each other the truth. One report from Cotignac describes men standing in a circle and saying why they came; the reasons named include difficulty conceiving a child, infidelity in a marriage, and loneliness.

A men's pilgrimage is not a statement about women, and it is not the only way for a man to make a pilgrimage. Most men will go with their wives and families, and should. Going with other men is one particular help toward a particular end, which is to send a man back to his home, his parish and his work more able to give himself.

Fathers and sons: one road at two ages

The son may be thirteen or fifty. A father with a boy on the edge of adulthood is doing what Joseph did: taking him up to the feast, letting him be seen as a young man among men, and discovering on the way that his son already belongs to God more than to him. A grown son may equally be the one who takes his aging father to Rome or Lourdes. Grandfathers and grandsons, godfathers and godsons, stepfathers, uncles and nephews belong on the same road. So does the man whose father has died or was never there, and the man who has no children: "Whenever a man accepts responsibility for the life of another," Pope Francis writes, "in some way he becomes a father to that person."

It would be dishonest to promise what the journey will do. Fathers who have walked the Camino with their sons say, in their own words, that they grew together and that they will have the memory for the rest of their lives. The organizer of one father-and-son Camino from Kansas observes that it can suit fathers and sons whose relationship is strained or who are not especially religious, because the road gives them a shared task. That is the most a pilgrimage offers: time, a common effort, the sacraments close at hand, and fewer places to hide.

Assisi tells the other side of the story. The Sanctuary of the Renunciation recalls, by tradition, the place where the young Francis gave back his clothes to his father, and the tomb of St. Carlo Acutis, who died at fifteen and was canonized in the same Mass as Pier Giorgio Frassati, is in its church, Santa Maria Maggiore. A father standing there with his son is being told plainly that the boy's vocation is God's to give. For a son close to the age Carlo was, it matters that the saint in front of him was a teenager of his own century. Pope Leo XIV said at the canonization that Carlo encountered Jesus in his family, thanks to his parents.